till death do us part?
"you never know your husband until you're married to him."
I kind of doubt it, actually, I don't like the idea at all. I wanna know all about the guy I'm going to marry, and then I would say to myself that I'm not marrying the wrong guy.
I've seen married that failed. my friends, my cousins, my aunty, my friends parents, my friends cousins. Long time ago, I always thought that divorce was just some alien word for people who live alien live. It just happened to actress, model, famous people. Not the people I know, not the couple that smile so happily in their wedding day. not them.
but as I grew older (and wiser I hope), I realised married is not an eternal things to keep for some people, it's not a strong bond between two lovers, it's not a happily ever after-the end of the story. married it's fragile, it broke easily, it dies easily, it ended easily, and before we knew it, the one who said the vow to keep us, make us happy, be with us in joy and sorrow, and always beside us until death do take us apart become the one who make us sorrow, the one who make us cry, the one who we hate so much that it make a relief to broke a vow. a holy vow.
and who knew what would happen after all the ceremony, all the money that wasted, all the photograph in tired smile, all the foods and the drinks, who knew?
and even if I know my guy, who's gonna guarantee he's not gonna change, because people do change, wheter we like or not. they change, so do we.
my mom said, "in marriage, love is never enough. it takes patience and faith."
I try to learn it from my heart.
I really try.
Love is just an illusion, it's never gonna be a real thing. but we do see what that illusion made us. we do see the beauty of it, we do fell the comfort it brings, we do hear the sound of laugh because of it.
when I look my guy I just don't want to believe that what I felt for him is just an illution, it's just a dependable act because we've been together for so long.
I always believe my mom that it takes patience and faith for two people in a relationship.
But I'd like to believe it too, that love is not an illution, it's so real that we decided to put our faith in a man, to patiently keep the relationship.
but I guess I just like the romance too much.
I kind of doubt it, actually, I don't like the idea at all. I wanna know all about the guy I'm going to marry, and then I would say to myself that I'm not marrying the wrong guy.
I've seen married that failed. my friends, my cousins, my aunty, my friends parents, my friends cousins. Long time ago, I always thought that divorce was just some alien word for people who live alien live. It just happened to actress, model, famous people. Not the people I know, not the couple that smile so happily in their wedding day. not them.
but as I grew older (and wiser I hope), I realised married is not an eternal things to keep for some people, it's not a strong bond between two lovers, it's not a happily ever after-the end of the story. married it's fragile, it broke easily, it dies easily, it ended easily, and before we knew it, the one who said the vow to keep us, make us happy, be with us in joy and sorrow, and always beside us until death do take us apart become the one who make us sorrow, the one who make us cry, the one who we hate so much that it make a relief to broke a vow. a holy vow.
and who knew what would happen after all the ceremony, all the money that wasted, all the photograph in tired smile, all the foods and the drinks, who knew?
and even if I know my guy, who's gonna guarantee he's not gonna change, because people do change, wheter we like or not. they change, so do we.
my mom said, "in marriage, love is never enough. it takes patience and faith."
I try to learn it from my heart.
I really try.
Love is just an illusion, it's never gonna be a real thing. but we do see what that illusion made us. we do see the beauty of it, we do fell the comfort it brings, we do hear the sound of laugh because of it.
when I look my guy I just don't want to believe that what I felt for him is just an illution, it's just a dependable act because we've been together for so long.
I always believe my mom that it takes patience and faith for two people in a relationship.
But I'd like to believe it too, that love is not an illution, it's so real that we decided to put our faith in a man, to patiently keep the relationship.
but I guess I just like the romance too much.
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